My first ideas on marriage were borrowed from a partnership that lasted fifty-two years. It sounds like a lifetime. It very much is. I witnessed the old-world charm of love, longing, and loss all bundled in a lifespan and, more importantly, in my formative years. As a young Christian couple back in the sixties, my […]
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Published 15th Apr, 2021 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023As we travel and make new homes in unknown lands, we grow to appreciate new cultures but also use a focal but distant lens to observe homes of the past. I notice this in myself when I speak with family in India and know that I am not alone. In full disclosure I must admit […]
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Published 14th Apr, 2021 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023I was about 5 years old, hopping and skipping along to catch up with my grandfather as we went for our Sunday walk, just him and me, talking, me asking him a 1000 questions and him sharing life lessons with me, disguised in funny, interesting stories. He was a very gentle soul, with twinkling eyes […]
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Published 14th Apr, 2021 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023The years have flown by and I often find myself wondering if it has really been 12 years since I got married and then I see some grey hair and I am reminded that indeed it has! So much has changed over the years, I have lived in more countries than I could have ever […]
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Published 14th Apr, 2021 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023The last few years seem like a blur, the fast pace, the skewed focus on work that never seems to end and the constant feeling of being torn in trying to get the balance right between my personal and professional space and feeling like I can never get it right no matter how hard I […]
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Published 22nd Mar, 2021 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023Like any parent in this universe you want to give your children the sun, the moon and the stars. When my older daughter started dating a man at the age of 25, I was happy to see her happy, thinking she will date for a few years, figure out what she wants, find happiness, and […]
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Published 15th Mar, 2021 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023Who remembers the song “Brown girl in the ring” by Boney M? I sang it through my childhood, but cannot even imagine the reaction to the record playing in a public place today, especially since the next few lines describe her as a “sugar in a plum”!! “Plum, Plum!!” I had to write in the […]
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Published 4th Nov, 2020 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023The groom says, ‘We are now husband and wife, and are one. You are mine and I am yours for eternity.’ The bride accepts and says ‘I am now your wife. We will love, honour and cherish each other forever.’ Can I actually belong to someone? And that too for eternity? As childish as that […]
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Published 3rd Oct, 2020 | Last Updated 15th Dec, 2023During the Sixth Vow, the Groom asks his bride, ‘Now that you have taken six steps with me, you have filled my heart with immense happiness. Will you fill my heart with happiness like this forever?’ The Bride promises, ‘I will always be by your side’. Fifteen years on I have realised that these seven Hindu […]