About Matchmaking Process
About Professional Matchmaking Process

Our Process

Guided by Insight. Grounded in You.

At Vows for Eternity, we believe that the search for a life partner deserves more than an algorithm. It deserves attention, emotional depth, and human insight. Our process is intentionally personal, purpose-driven, and built on mutual trust.

Before we begin, we offer an initial conversation– a no-obligation call designed to understand your intent, answer your questions, and explore whether we are the right fit for one another. This conversation ensures that expectations are aligned and that our values resonate before we move forward.

Once we mutually decide to partner together, your journey as a member unfolds through a process that is structured, and deeply attuned to who you are.

Discovery

Your journey begins with a 90-minute onboarding session led by your dedicated matchmaker or a senior team member. This is a conversation to understand the person behind the profile. We delve into your life story, cultural background, relationship experiences, and aspirations. This phase is designed to establish what truly matters to you, beyond the obvious, and lay the foundation for a truly personalised search.

Alignment

We ensure that your membership tier, search strategy, and expectations are fully aligned with your life stage and goals. Your profile is thoughtfully crafted to reflect your personality, values, and intent with honesty and elegance. A quarterly review with our Client Success or Matchmaking team allows us to reassess and refine our approach as needed, ensuring your experience evolves with you.

Introductions

Matches are made with discernment; not based on volume, but on compatibility, emotional resonance, and shared vision. Once mutual interest is expressed, we facilitate the introduction and allow the connection to unfold at its own pace. With each round of feedback, we solidify our learnings of what aligns best and mould the journey to better reflect what you’re seeking.

Support Along the Way

Your journey with us is not transactional. It’s a relationship in itself. Throughout the process, you’ll have access to your matchmaking and client success team for support, updates, and honest conversations. For select memberships, we also offer sessions with our wellness experts and relationship coaches, recommended by our team based on your individual needs, to support you in showing up as your most grounded, open, and authentic self.

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Our Team

Welcome to our extraordinary team, where individuals aged 35 to 70, each carrying diverse life stories, come together from different parts of the world to celebrate the enduring power of love.

We've walked different paths, faced a myriad of challenges, and achieved numerous triumphs. Our collective experiences are a testament to the strength of human resilience. What sets our team apart is not just individual expertise but our ability to collaborate seamlessly despite being geographically dispersed. Spanning across continents and time zones, we harness the power of technology and the bonds of our shared belief in connections to create something truly magical.

We learn from one another, drawing inspiration from the customs and traditions that have shaped us. It's this very diversity that infuses our work with an eclectic blend of creativity and authenticity.

Our belief in love is the glue that binds us together. It's the driving force behind every email we send, every call we make, and every detail we meticulously plan. We know that love has the power to heal, to unite, and to elevate the human spirit, and we carry this knowledge in our hearts as we work dedicatedly to craft the most significant journey of our clients' lives.